从事K12教育行业多年
ThereasonwhyIamunwillingtobetheonlychildisquiteobvious.Ialwaysfeellonelyandhelpless.Ihaveeverdiscusseditwithmyclassmatesandtheyhavegotthesamefeelingsasme.Whenschoolisover,wegobackhomeandhavenoonetotalkwith,forparentsarebusywiththeirjobsorhousechores.Evenwhentheyhaveleisuretime,duetothegenerationgap,wefindwehavenothingincommon.Onourwaytoadults,wehavemetalotoftroubleonwhichwelingerandponder.Ifeachofushasanelderbrotherorsister,wecanconsulthimorher.Ofcourse,brothersandsistersarenotalwaysunderanatmosphereofcooperation.Sometimestheyquarrel;sometimestheyargue;sometimestheycompromise.Beingnottheonlychildinthefamilyoffersusearlyexperiencesofgettingalongwitheachother.Thefeelingoflonelinessdelaysourabilitytocopewithothers,becausemostofourchildhood,westayalonemorethanstaywithothers.Weallhopetohaveasiblingtoreleaseourselvesfromthetroubleabove.Probably,whenwegrowmatureandfindwecansubstituteasiblingwithfriends,cousinsorhobbies,wewillnotfeellonelyanylonger.